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when a friend gets the news

How to help a friend's family

When a friend's child is diagnosed with cancer, it is hard to know what to say or do. Small, specific kindnesses go a long way.

where to start

Simple ways to show up

Keep it simple

You do not need the perfect words. “We are thinking of you” is enough, and it means a lot.

Offer something specific

Instead of “let me know what you need,” offer one thing you can actually do, like a meal, a ride, or time with the siblings.

Keep showing up

Treatment is long. A card or text a few weeks in often means more than the flurry at the start.

Draft tips for Holly to review and rewrite in the K Club's voice

how the K Club helps

Bring a little joy to the family

Request a K Boost

Gifts for a patient celebrating a birthday, grocery cards for a family struggling financially, or gifts for the whole family when they need a pick-me-up.

Join the K Club Kids list

Parties, events, giveaways, and surprises just for children fighting cancer and blood disorders.

Keaton's Lego Project

Lego sets for kids on the oncology floor, because there's always time to build something.

more help

Other resources

  • Jimmy Everest Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders, Oklahoma Children's Hospital [link]
  • Oklahoma Children's Cancer Association [link]
  • More resources [Client to supply]
every bit helps

Your kindness, one gift at a time

Give once or monthly, for as little as $5/month. Keaton's Kindness Foundation is a 501(c)(3), and all donations are tax deductible.